Let's Talk About Sex.

Madonna once said: “its human nature.” It’s completely natural and shouldn’t be censored. I’m talking about sex. Not exactly a taboo subject anymore. People everywhere are becoming more expressive and open with sex and with their own sexual desires more and more everyday: S and M, role playing, kama sutra, anal sex, oral sex, threesomes, foursomes, orgy’s, and fetishes are not just for people who love shoes anymore. There are a bunch of different positions and techniques out there nowadays to satisfy everyone. So how did I get to thinking about this subject?

          Last night my good friend Lauren Whitmore dropped by my house for a visit. She was in a very interesting phase in her life right now. After ending her relationship of a few years, Lauren cut her loses and started fresh with men already flocking to her like moths to a flame. I loved hearing her talk about the men she was dating. A huge grin would find its way onto her face and her eyes would light up with excitement as she went into detail of how attentive they were and how special they made her feel. It all sounded so glamorous and I ate it up with a fork and spoon every time. So after regaling us with how smoothly things were moving with one of the gentlemen she was currently seeing, naturally, the conversation turned to sex. 

          It started out innocently enough with Lauren, my two roommates and I taking a moment and listing all the people we had slept with. After doing that, we decided to grade them based on their overall performance. Lauren and my roommate Cash put a little more thought into it by giving out “B+’s” and “C-‘s” while I just stuck with a simple “A”, “B”, “F” grading system. But leave it up to Lauren to take it a step further by going into detail about the men themselves and why she slept with them. Using descriptive words like, “packing” to describe size and “courtesy fuck” only kept us laughing the whole night.

Here we were a bunch of twenty-something’s sitting around discussing, comparing and reminiscing in the memories of the decadent pleasure that is sex.

There are a couple of things that I believe in when it comes to sex: soft kisses on the neck, wearing cute underwear, dirty talk and most importantly, condoms. But those are just some of my own personal beliefs. Sex is so free form that it can be whatever you make it. It’s an expression of the body and nothing anyone should be ashamed of. So whether you’re packing heat, playing for the other team or sampling all the different flavors out there just embrace your sensuality and don’t worry about where your journey will take you, just enjoy the ride.

Xoxo.

B.